Spiritual Teacher/Healer/Student Relationship. Common Problems And How To Address Them: By Sabrina Reber.

QUESTION: My question is in terms of relationships that, as Pema Chodron says, are "meant to push your buttons". Specifically, the teacher/student relationship. In your own experience, how do you know when that relationship is completely over, and it's time for the next teacher, and when that relationship is just ready to be transformed and taken to the next level? The teacher/student relationship is fraught with adversarial conflict and compassionate detachment, as well as great commitment. It's one of the trickier ones in my own life..I want to raise my vibration so I can continue with my teacher, and it's incredibly challenging. Thank you for taking the time to contemplate this, especially since you are a teacher and we are your students too!


ANSWER: First of all, I would say we are meant to have MANY spiritual teachers, and healers along our spiritual journey. Each teacher will provide us something NEW to further expand our growth. If we remain with only one teacher we will greatly limit ourselves. We need to be very careful about becoming comfortable, co-dependent and attached to our spiritual teacher. The student always needs to be discerning with the information and teachings the teacher is presenting, as well as, be discerning with PROJECTIONS from your SELF, as well as, from the teacher. This will require extreme self honesty and self introspection on both parties ~ so be very careful of a teacher who no longer feels they need to do inner work.....we are all a work in progress! The teacher is learning and evolving as well!

The teacher/student relationship can become highly destructive, and harmful to your soul if the teacher begins to take away your FREE WILL. The teacher needs to always respect and honor where you are on your journey, and this requires EXTREME patience. The teacher is truly there to help you SEE your self, and also to help you develop and build confidence in your OWN inner voice and intuitive guidance system. This is where it can get messy because the student is oftentimes in denial, and may not truly want or be able to “SEE” themselves. If the teacher is not careful they may step out of their heart space, and become frustrated...perhaps even angry and controlling. Never forget the teacher is human, and working on their stuff too! A frustrated teacher would be very counterproductive because the teacher may start to tell the student how they should live their life, how they should feel and where they should be along their journey, and this is totally out of alignment with the students highest and best good because the teachers main role is to GUIDE, INSPIRE and help the student ACTIVATE and TRUST the inner voice within.

I personally do not resonate with the belief “relationships are meant to push our buttons”......it is true relationships can show us our character defects, but if we believe relationships are meant to push our buttons then that is exactly what we will create for ourselves ~ toxic relationships that keep us in a negative learning cycle. In addition, our belief will get us to behave in ways that always push other peoples buttons....and guess what, they will push our buttons back! What we put out, we always get back! We are moving out of the old paradigm of dualistic, negative, karmic co-creation! We have a choice (we always have had this choice but did not have the awareness) to create learning lessons through positive loving interactions or negative fearful interactions. Wherever our focus of attention/intention is aligned is what we will manifest for our self. Are we aligned with free will, love and compassion towards our SELF, and others, or are we aligned with the fear of trying to control others through the pushing of their buttons to get what we want? The “pushing of buttons” is a control mechanism based on duality ~ ego separation ~ where we unconsciously, and sometimes consciously, manipulate others not realizing what we do to them we also do to our SELf ~ because we are ONE.

Now, that is not to say ~ If we choose Loving Interactions over fearful ones ~ we will never create a negative learning experience with another soul again. Many of our relationships are contracted, and they are the catalyst for our greatest learning lessons. Our higher self is an ascended master, but our souls are still learning lessons in self mastery. We are becoming more conscious of the direction of our soul’s energy and the vibration we are emitting however, I have personally not met anyone who has total mastery over their mind, and complete energetic system. We are all still learning and being given the opportunity to self master sometimes through difficult interactions however, we do not want to keep our energy aligned with negative co-creation....we want to stay focused on what we do want, not what we don’t want. 

I choose to be a presence of LOVE, and if I have someone in my life who REPETITIVELY “pushes my buttons” then I will first have to be really honest with my SELF and ask myself: “Why is this person here? What are they wanting to teach me, and is this THEIR lesson or is this mine? Perhaps the lesson is for both people....but not always. Given the diversity in levels of consciousness at this time on the planet ~ where many souls are ascending while some resist their expansion in consciousness ~ extreme discernment, self honesty and self introspection will be required for us to figure out what is being reflected to us. Oftentimes, you will discover the reflection is the energy of chaos and fear within both people (negative elementals and negative thought forms in the chakra system) that is stirring up trouble trying to throw each person off balance so more negativity can enter into each persons energetic system. Be discerning! Sometimes these interactions are created so your LIGHT can be stolen and diminished. 

We live in energetically transformational times, and not all energies are wanting to return to the LIGHT of greater awareness so they are stirring up chaos and turmoil! Keep your energy field in tact ~ stay aligned and grounded within your higher self! If someone greatly upsets you, and you become angry your energy field may expand very rapidly, and open up space for something negative to come in......you will really need to address whether this relationship is worth putting your energy at risk! If someone is purposefully, repetitively pushing your buttons ~ ask your self if this is something you would like to continue to experience. You have free will, and you are the director of your life.....what do you want to experience? If this is something you feel you have had enough of ~ 

re-direct your energy and your focus. Release what no longer serves you, integrate a higher consciousness into your being by learning the lessons from this interaction, and move on towards something more life affirming. If you re-attract a similar interaction in the future, use the wisdom you gained from the previous situation, and handle it differently ~ show the universe you are evolving and mastering the need to recreate negative situations in your life.....show to the universe you can remain aligned with the LOVE of your higher self regardless of what is happening around you.

The teacher, healer, student role is a tricky one. It requires both people to respect each other, and requires tremendous self honesty and trust from both people. The teacher can become attached to the student just as much as the student can become attached to the teacher. When it is time to for the student to move on to a new teacher....the energy will become uncomfortable for both people, and if you remain in this relationship the Universe will end it very abruptly, and oftentimes painfully for you because you did not listen to the warning signs! This is part of your lesson in DISCERNMENT! In addition, the teacher also needs to be able to tap into the direction of energy with their students, and be willing to recommend to the student that it is time for them to allow the Universe to guide them to their next teacher that will support them on the evolution of their soul’s journey. Another very important aspect is the student should not DUAL with the teacher! BE RESPECTFUL! It is egoic and disrespectful to constantly be trying to challenge your teacher during your session. Simply take what resonates and leave the rest behind.... and if you no longer resonate with the teachers messages ~ then clearly it is time for you to find a teacher who you do resonate with.

I highly suggest for spiritual teachers, healers and aspiring students to read the book: “THE ETHICS OF CARING": Honoring The Web Of Life In Our Professional Healing Relationships By:Kylea Taylor. This book will greatly help you understand the dynamics of these relationships, and help you not fall into the common pitfalls that can create great confusion and pain.

Always keep in mind, the greatest teacher, friend and advisor is your HIGHER SELF! We need spiritual teachers in this dimension to help us activate our higher wisdom and to inspire us to move beyond our comfort zones ~ HOWEVER....do not put the spiritual teacher above the wisdom of the intuitive guidance from your HIGHER SELF. 

~ Sabrina

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Powerful Tool For Sending Love And Healing To The Earth

A powerful tool for healing the Earth. We are going to send healing energy to:

1. All bodies of water on the Earth.
2. The air of the Earth
3. The soil, rocks, crystals and molten lava of the Earth both on the exterior and interior of the planet.
4. The trees and all vegetation on Earth.
5. All living beings on the Earth.

For each aspect of the Earth we are going to state a command and witness the healing occurring:

WATER:

Creator of All That Is, I command for love and healing energy to be sent to "all bodies of water on the Earth". I command for all negativity, toxicity and lower vibrations to be released ~ sent to your light, and transmuted into love. I command for healing energy to be released into all bodies of water raising their vibration to their highest expression of love that the waters can contain at this time. Show me: Watch as the Creator removes the toxins and sends them to the Creators light and fills all bodies of water on the Earth with glowing energy. Thank you it is done.

AIR:

Creator of All That Is I command for love and healing energy to be sent to "the air all around the Earth." I command for all negativity, toxicity and lower vibrations to be released ~ sent to your light, and transmuted into love. I command for healing energy to be released into the air raising its vibration to the highest expression of love that the air can contain at this time. Show me: Watch as the Creator removes the toxins and sends them to the Creators light and fills the air surrounding the Earth with glowing energy. Thank you it is done.

SOIL, ROCKS, CRYSTALS, INNER/OUTER EARTH:


Creator of All That Is, I command for love and healing energy to be sent to "the surface of the Earth and inside the Earth to the soil, rocks and molten lava." I command for all negativity, toxicity and lower vibrations to be released ~ sent to your light and transmuted into love. I command for healing energy to be released across the entire surface of the Earth and inside the Earth raising its vibration to the highest expression of love that the interior and exterior of the Earth can contain at this time. Show me: Watch as the Creator removes the toxins and sends them to the Creators light and fills the inner and outer Earth with glowing energy. Thank you it is done.

THE TREES AND ALL VEGETATION EARTH:


Creator of All That Is I command for love and healing energy to be sent to "to the trees and all vegetation on Earth." I command for all negativity, toxicity and lower vibrations to be released ~ sent to your light and transmuted into love. I command for healing energy to be released into to the trees and all vegetation on Earth raising their vibration to their highest expression of love that the vegetation can contain at this time. Show me: Watch as the Creator removes the toxins and sends them to the Creators light and watch as the Creator fills the vegetation of the Earth with glowing energy. Thank you it is done.

ALL LIVING BEINGS ON EARTH:

Creator of All That Is, I command for love and healing energy to be sent to "to all living beings on earth for their highest and best good." I command for all negativity, toxicity and lower vibrations to be released ~ sent to your light, and transmuted into love. I command for healing energy to be released onto to the planet assisting each being with their highest and best good, and raising their vibration to the highest expression of love that they are willing to contain at this time. Show me: Watch as the Creator removes the lower vibrations form the entire Earth and sends them to the Creators light and witness the Creator sending love and healing energy all across the entire planet. See the planet glowing with love and light. Thank you it is done.

Whatever you visualize is perfect for you. The Creator will show you in your mind a vision that is easy for you and specific for you. You may see gray clouds or gray energy leaving and going up to the Creators light and white sparkles being sent down as healing light or streams of white light that makes the Earth glow. Whatever you see is perfect. You can also write your own commands. Setting your intention, making a command to the Creator and witnessing the healing occur is a very powerful way for you to be pro-active in the healing and transformation of the planet. YOU do make a difference.

Thank you for sending love and healing to the Earth.  Love, Sabrina
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How Do We Heal Illness and Disease?

QUESTION: How do we heal illness +"disease" that we know we are ready to let go of?


How to Raise Your Vibration ANSWER: TRUE healing can be a long and very painful process because we have to address and heal the things within us that created, attracted or manifested the dis-ease in the first place. I highly recommend Barbara Brennen's book called "Light Emerging, A Journey Through Personal Healing" and Louise Hays book "You Can Heal Your Life." I also highly suggest people locate a Master Teacher DNA Theta Healer. They work with your team of guides and the Creator of All That Is to remove the subconscious programs (emotions, beliefs, feelings and trauma held over a very long period of time) that create the energetic blocks and distortions in the energy field that manifest as illness and dis-ease in the physical body. All illness and discord starts in the energy field FIRST and then makes it's way to the physical body and announces itself as pain and illness. A Theta Healer will greatly accelerate our healing journey, BUT we also must be very active participants in the healing process because truth be told ~ no one can heal us but ourselves ~ however, healers will help us access the parts of ourselves that we may be attached to, and even unaware of, that we don't want to let go of. To truly heal, I believe we need a 3 part agreement: SELF (most important aspect), the healer and SPIRIT. We also need to work on all levels of our being (not just physical) ~ Emotional, Mental, Physical and Spiritual. Love, Sabrina

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What is a Reiki Class By Sabrina Reber

Reiki Classes

The Reiki Usui System is easy to learn and can be learned by anyone regardless of their age or religious preference. Reiki is not affiliated with any religion; it is universal and available to everyone. The Reiki System of Natural Healing is taught through a Reiki Master Teacher who initiates the student into higher levels of the Universal Life Force Energy. Once a person is initiated into Reiki their energetic system is balanced and cleared, their vibration is raised and their channel is expanded to increase a more concentrated flow of Reiki energy that will flow through them for the rest of their life. The attunement process is a blissful, beautiful interaction between you and your God self. Divine grace opens your heart assisting you to connect to deeper levels of unconditional love, forgiveness, unity and compassion for yourself and the planet.

Each of us are natural born healers. We all have the Universal Life Force Energy running through our system. Without this energy we would not be alive. When someone is in pain, we instinctively connect with the person by giving them a hug, rubbing them on the back or placing our hands over the affected area. The ability to do healing work is inherent in all of us. It is a normal and natural procedure.

A Reiki class will not give you anything you do not already possess. However, a Reiki class will greatly enhance and strengthen your already innate ability to heal. A Reiki attunement clears and expands your central light column, clears energetic blocks and activates you to transmit higher levels of healing energy. The Reiki attunement opens and aligns what was already a part of you.

Think of your body as a house. The house comes equipped with electrical wiring. God gave each of us the freewill choice to live in a house with or without electricity. All we have to do is make the choice to turn the switch on for the electrical currents to be connected. The Reiki attunement is the light switch that turns your power on.

Reiki

Three Degrees

Reiki is transmitted to the student in three degrees. Each degree includes an attunement. An attunement is a sacred spiritual initiation that connects the student to higher levels of consciousness and to an unlimited source of healing energy. The attunement enhances the students connection with their higher self, clears karma and negative energy from the energy body and raises the students vibration opening them up to hold more light, Ki, or Universal Life Force energy.

A physical and emotional cleansing and reorganization of the student’s energy will occur. The attunement elicits a healing response on all levels of the students being: Physical, Mental, Emotional and Spiritual. It usually takes between 30-90 days for the student’s energetic and physical bodies to integrate these new higher vibrational energies. Daily self-healing for at least the first month is highly recommended.

Attunement=Initiation=Empowerment

FIRST DEGREE (“I Am in the Light”) is called Shoden. It is the basic course where the student learns self-treatment and how to treat others. This degree will help you learn how to be a clear channel, how to develop a clear mind and develop a compassionate detachment from outcome by releasing control and simply allowing Reiki to happen.

Once attuned, the student will go through a 3-4 week cleansing period where their body adjusts to higher levels of energy. During this period the chakras are cleared, balanced and enlarged. The hara line or central light column is cleared and expanded and the student is able to channel higher levels of  ki. The student goes from a 50-watt light bulb to a 100-watt light bulb.

Includes the history of Reiki, hand placements for self and others, Initiation with 4 attunements and practice time to integrate the energy and gain confidence.

$150.00 Workbook and Certificate included.

SECOND DEGREE (“The Light is in Me”) is called Okuden. The second level attunement opens the student up even further to channel higher levels of “Spiritually Guided Universal Life Force Energy”. The student is given three sacred symbols as tools to transmit Reiki long distance to a person not physically present and will learn the technique for mental emotional healing.

This attunement focuses on emotional, mental and karmic healing. Old emotions, unhealed former situations, past lives and negative mental patterns resurface to be healed and released. The student will go through a 3-4 week cleansing period.

Classes will run approximately $150.00 depending on your location and teacher. Workbook and Certificate included

THIRD DEGREE  (“I Am the Light”) is called Shinpiden and is taught in two segments. The Reiki 3 attunement is a spiritual level healing. It strengthens your connection to God source, joy, compassion and oneness with all life.

Level 1 Master broadens the students channel even further through another attunement and assists in self-mastery and spiritual growth. The Master symbol is given to the student and they are considered a Reiki Master Therapist or Practitioner.

Classes will run approximately $250.00 depending on your location and teacher. Workbook and Certificate


Level 2 Master Teacher is recommended only for the serious healer. This final attunement strengthens your connection to the Master symbol and teaches the method in passing attunements, as well as, advanced techniques and knowledge about the entire Reiki system.

Classes will run approximately $300.00 depending on your location and the teacher. Workbook and Certificate are included


~Sabrina