We Are Here To Evolve Our Own Personal Soul. When We Heal The Self, We Contribute To The Whole ~ There Is No Separation. We Are One! By: Sabrina Reber

We must understand that we are here to evolve our own personal soul. We do have soul contracts with others to help us heal, but we can not change others ~ we can only heal our self and perhaps be an example for others to follow. Every thing in our life is there for us to experience so we can heal and evolve "OUR" soul. Yes, it is true the law of attraction, karma and our current energy patterns of thinking and behaving create our current reality, AND people are mirrors for "something" within our being that needs to be healed. HOWEVER, if we are in an abusive, co-dependant relationship....WHY? What needs to be healed in your being? You would not be in your integrity, and in your alignment if you continue to allow abuse into your life. Love your self enough to be honest with your relationships, have the courage to speak up for your self and set loving boundaries. Communicate with your soul mates. It is karmically binding to allow people to continue to mistreat us. People treat us the way we ALLOW them to treat us.....why would you allow others to continue to create karma for themselves and for you? Stop the karmic dance. Heal your self, forgive your self and then you will be able to forgive them and move forward in your evolution; regardless if they choose to heal or not. This is not about them.....this is about you and what is for your highest good. Love your self, respect your self, heal your self, use your heart felt feelings of "discernment" and shift the direction of your energy so you will not attract negative relationships into your life anymore. The healing is all about YOU....say no with love, and move on. If the relationship is meant to be, it will heal....if not it will dissolve ~ unless you choose to artificially sustain a toxic situation because you are attached, co-dependant or you are feeding off of the chaos and drama. Unconditional love begins with loving the self. What needs to be healed within your being so you can create the life of your dreams? Attachment will weigh you down. Releasing what no longer serves your highest good will help you ascend. Do you want to learn through love or do you want to learn through pain ~ the choice is yours. Take responsibility for your life and make the changes necessary to evolve not revolve. Set you and your karmic relationships FREE....learn "YOUR" lessons and move on. ~ Sabrina https://www.facebook.com/pages/How-to-Raise-Your-Vibration/204840666199710?ref=tn_tnmn

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Question About Relationships And Spiritual Growth

QUESTION: Do you have any tips or advice etc on the best way to stay focused, positive and keep moving forward when the person you love and have a child with isn't there and can sometimes be negative and angry? I understand we are at all different stages of our growth but can 2 people be together happily if one is desperate to accelerate and the other is scared and maybe not ready? I have been trying to just keep going with my journey and send him lots of love and light.

ANSWER: Yes, it is very possible for you to stay together IF the relationship is based on LOVE and TRUST and not attachment and control. This is a very common dilemma for many people. One person will begin the spiritual path and the other may not be ready or may be full of fear and distorted beliefs. Remember the spiritual path is the healing path so in order to advance spiritually we have to face the inner distortions ~ mainly the unprocessed emotions and feelings, negative beliefs, egoic behavioral patterns and karma (unbalanced energy) ~ within our energy fields. Although your soul may be ready to bring your self into balance, for many people, the comforts of denial will keep them from healing. The thought of actually having to take responsibility for their inner workings may be to much for them to handle and they will refuse to participate in any kind of spiritual practice because when we finally decide to FACE GOD we have to face OUR SELVES. The important thing is for you to stay committed to your healing journey no matter what ~ and you will be tested in your commitment. Oftentimes, when we begin to heal and transcend the negative behavioral patterns within us one of two things will occur ~ you will become an example for them...a beacon of light where they decide they too want to create more love, joy and happiness for themselves OR they may get scared that you are changing to rapidly and they may be fearful of loosing you (the old you) so they will try to stop your growth and keep you exactly the way you are.....because if they keep you the same, then they don’t have to change either. Having said that....I think it is important to look at your relationship in the past tense....has it been a loving relationship? Is this person possessive and controlling or will they be able to allow you to follow your heart? Your past will show you a lot about the future of your relationship. In addition, you will need to be very careful yourself about not pushing the other person onto the spiritual path. The best way for us to teach is by example. Honor and respect their right to choose. By you simply aligning yourself with Spirit, you will shift your vibration and you will effect everyone you come in contact with....especially the family members in your household. When you raise your frequency, you raise the vibration of the house and it is impossible for them to not be affected by your positive energy. Oftentimes, simply through vibrational resonance, they will begin to shift...especially if you are sleeping next to the person at night. You can also ask your guides and angels to please work with your partners spiritual team in raising their vibration for THEIR highest and best good....remember you DO NOT know what is for their highest and best good, but their spiritual teams and Spirit do ~ ask for their help. Also don’t be attached to the relationship and their spiritual growth....stay focused on yours. Also, be aware that as you climb the mountain of self, raising your vibrations you will be put in situations to prove that you can hold your light and that you are willing to release the old behaviors that no longer serve you. Usually, these interactions will occur within our families....especially through our kids and partners. We are learning how to master ourselves. You are with your partner for a reason. As long as the relationship is loving (not perfect), and the other person honors your free will right to choose ~ and you honor their free will right to choose ~ then it is very possible this relationship can be a catalyst for tremendous soul growth and advancement for both of you. It may be a little rocky in the beginning as you begin to re-birth your self, but it is totally doable. If the relationship begins to exhaust your energy, becomes abusive, domineering or begins to halt your growth then you may need to make some adjustments. You may even need to learn how to stand up for your self in a balanced loving manner, learn how to speak your truth with words of love, learn how to express your feelings and also learn how to make sure your needs are met. Only you can choose to do what is best for you and your family. Just make sure you keep your self on the upward spiral of soul ascension....face your problems, fears, distortions, attachments and distorted beliefs. If the relationship is meant to be then it will remain...if it needs to be released ~ you will know. Ask for guidance from Spirit in all things that you do, and then be still and “listen”. Many Blessings, Sabrina

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Why Do We Reincarnate? Is It Real?

QUESTION: Can you tell me why we reincarnate? In Indian mythology, it is said that u reincarnate every time until you have become pure with no sins to ur account. is it true?

ANSWER: This is an excellent question. Please take everything I say into your heart and see if it resonates with you. First of all, I have an aversion to the word "sin" ~ because of the belief systems that surround "sin". For many, sin implies judgment and I know for sure, because I have experienced the Creators unconditional love in meditation, that the Creator does NOT judge us. The Creator loves us unconditionally ~ no matter what we do.

So for me, I am going to use the term misqualified energy or karmic miasims, instead of sin ~ which is basically energy distortions within our energy field (off pitched vibrations) that we carry with us incarnation after incarnation until we transmute them through the balancing of our energy. All energy seeks balance, so if we have done something against Gods laws....we will need to do something positive to balance out the negative energetic imprints we have created. And for the most part, a lot of us at this time on Earth are getting our karma served to us on a silver plate because we can not take our energy distortions with us into the new earth. We are processing through an enormous amount of karma ~ in this specific lifetime.

As far as reincarnation, past lives etc.....I use these terms and I know they exist but our understanding of it is somewhat limited because we are using "words" to describe this type of phenomena in a time and space  atmosphere when really the soul is in a continuous cycle of experience in the multi dimensions all the time....we are eternal and vast and to be honest we can access our future and our past all at once because we really are NOT bound by the time and space constraints we believe ourselves to be in. Time as we perceive it really does not exist. Our past, present and future lives all exist in the energy of oneness.....it is all happening NOW....and honestly it is far to complicated for me to explain.

Having said that, reincarnation and past lives is the best way many of us have found to describe the soul experience of life and death....which actually life and death are one and the same energy. I feel when we "supposedly die" ~ we actually step into our truth and are more ALIVE than when we are in a physical body due to our perceived human belief system that we are separated from Source, each other and the entire Universe.

So yes, in a way, the Indian belief system is somewhat accurate ~ in that we do reach a point where our energy is pure enough and our karma or energetic distortions are balanced enough to where we no longer need to take on a physical body anymore to clear our karma and learn our lessons. We will become an ascended master and work from the euphoric ascended realms guiding and assisting other souls move into their enlightenment as well. Even beings that have moved beyond the need to take on a physical body still evolve and still learn lessons through their "service" work....not charity work, but service work. Everyone, no matter how evolved they are, continue to create and assist within the multidimensional and very vast realms of creation....creation never stops ~ it is an ongoing, exciting, fun process. How boring it would be to hang out in "heaven" all the time.... floating on a cloud.

However, I think it would be wise for each of us to understand that there is more to the concept of reincarnation and past lives. As we evolve in consciousness and expand our being we will be able to understand greater and greater truths. The higher our vibration, the more truth we are able to tap into. However, we must always keep in mind, that we are limited by the vibration of the planet ~ meaning we can only access a certain level of vibration here on Earth. The real TRUTH is so high vibrational our earthly physical bodies would not be able to sustain that amount of light/truth; we would literally blow up.

So yes, for now our consciousness is able to understand reincarnation and past lives......the Indian concept is the closest to truth that we are currently able to understand, but lets stay open to new and more powerful truths as we evolve. I think the important thing for each of us to do is stay focused in the NOW....whatever issues and problems we are having now are what we are here to transform and transmute within our being. Stay focused on being the best you can be in the NOW. May we all be blessed as we go through this process.

Love, Sabrina

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QUESTION ABOUT PAINFUL SOUL LESSONS AND CONTRACTS

QUESTION ABOUT PAINFUL SOUL LESSONS AND CONTRACTS:

Help me understand why my soul sees fit to be required to take abuses, bullying, meanness daily....what possible good can come from allowing this in my life? curious.....

ANSWER: 
Your higher self is trying to get your soul to to say NO and not allow abuse in your life. You will continue lifetime after lifetime with the very same painful soul imprints of abuse until you finally learn to love and respect your self enough and find the strength to remove yourself from any toxic, abusive relationships that continue to wound your soul and your divine energy. Each of us are being called to step up and create what we want. However, in order to do that, we have to let go of the things that are not serving us. Don't let the fear of change stop you from creating the happy, loving life you deserve.

There is a powerful saying: "Never let anyone or anything to disturb your ease because if you do, you will become dis~eased.

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Feeling Like You Don't Want To Be Here~ Did Someone Make Me Incarnate?

QUESTION: I was wondering if free will works for all of our souls in all dimensions? While receiving a Reiki 1 Attunement I had a terrible feeling whilst being born in this world that I was being punished by having to be reborn again. I have always had problems with roots and not wanting to ground here, I would bite myself so hard to prove to myself that I was not in body. Also, when one sees the true "Good Self" in all others and is understanding, compassionate and forgiving (not to the acts but to the soul) sometimes it gets so difficult to set up boundaries. I really didn't want to come ~ when you have felt that "Love" (God's Love) how is it possible that you would willingly want to come back here?


HTRYV ANSWER: Yes, free will is given to ALL of our soul aspects that are incarnated on planet Earth. We come here from our own free will choice...no one makes us incarnate. We can stay in the spiritual realms as long as we like. Eventually, we are ready to incarnate...the desire to grow and get closer to Creator God/Goddess is very strong and from the spiritual realms Earth is a very, very exciting place. It is the planet everyone wants to incarnate on because the density of the Earth is very beautiful. We also gain our greatest soul growth here.

Only the "chosen" ones are allowed to enter the dimension of Earth due to it's duality. Those of us who are here, have proven to be strong enough to handle such perceived separation from the Creator. It is truly an honor to be chosen to incarnate here and our greatest mastery is when we learn to LOVE being here. This occurs when we remove enough of the the veils that block us from the loving connection with the Creator of All That Is while on Earth. When we do this we aren't so dense....we are filled with joy, love and beauty...our consciousness resonates more with Heaven on Earth ~ we are here on Earth but not absorbed by the chaos and drama going on everywhere. We are able to see from a higher perspective and not be consumed with the earthly fears because we know we are deeply loved, always taken care of and we are eternal.

As far as you feeling like you were punished when you received your Reiki attunement, I just think the trauma from being born was raised to the surface to be healed. You chose to incarnate but as your spiritual being moved into the density of the physical body you changed your mind. However, your contracts were already set in motion and you have agreements with many people including the Earth and the Creator that could not be broken ~ you have work to do here. I believe that the infant souls who incarnate but die shortly after birth are souls who have never incarnated on Earth before and they come in for a very short period of time to get use to the density of the physical body and then quickly depart. This is agreed upon with the parents...the parents learn through this experience as well.

One goal of every human being is to ground more of our Spirt into our body ~ we must learn to ground ourselves here and enjoy our lives. Once we incarnate, all of us on some level of our being, don't want to really be here. We have a vague remembrance of the the love and connection from the spiritual realms and Earth is so dense and full of illusion, it is difficult for us to want to ground our Spirt into our physical body. When we set up soul contracts and choose to come to Earth we are in the loving embrace of the Creators energy...we forget what it feels like to be on Earth but our desire to come here is very strong so we can CREATE and allow the Creator to experience itself through us. Our contracts are lovingly created for our specific souls growth, but also because it gives the Creator multiple experiences to create from. It is fun when viewed from a higher aspect of ourselves. Our job is to merge with that higher aspect of ourselves and to create from a place of joy, excitement, love and exhilaration for the opportunity to be alive in a physical body. We are really amazing creatures...these bodies and our planet are spectacular!

You can not see the "good self" (God self) in others until you have seen it and have come to know it in yourself. Once you know it in yourself, you will naturally see it in everyone else but you must also be aware of each persons ego and shadow consciousness ~ including your own. We need to look at the totality of our beings. Mastery is about self love and learning how to master your energy.....it is also about using your free will in ways that are DISCERNING for your highest and best good. When we have self love we naturally choose relationships and circumstances that enhance our light. The more light we gain, the closer we get to our higher self and the Creator of All That Is. God is first! We need to make choices that are energetically supportive to our being and life affirming. We can love yet have compassionate detachment to hurtful people who are absorbed in their ego. Only you can decide for yourself which relationships are for your highest and best good. Being loving and compassionate does not mean sacrificing our energy or well being for the benefit of another. We are suppose to help others but you can only help those who have ears to hear and eyes to see. They have free will to behave however they want and you have free will to choose what is for your highest and best good. Whatever is for your souls highest and best good is for the highest and best good of the entire planet. Make choices that are joy filled for you. Love yourself and everyone else ~ have compassion and forgive but don't compromise the integrity of your soul. DNA Theta will really help you remove the trauma and thought forms of not wanting to be here ~ it will also strengthen you and help you to do the work you came here to do. Love, Sabrina

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